Let the games begin

It's been a long while since I've really written anything on here with any substance, or well, interestingness. It doesn't really have anything to do with my two new jobs, since I just barely started working the second one yesterday and the salon has been pretty easy scheduled (read: I go in when I please) since it's not that busy yet, oh yeah, and since I'm not licensed yet. Speaking of which, if any of you want to give me money so I can pay for my state boards, I would not argue with you. But I digress. The whole me-not-blogging-or-writing-poetry thing is because I haven't really had anything to talk about. Oh, besides the running into that one night stand, life has been pretty typical. You know my usual drinking at Jupes or Casey Moores with my bests antics, just doesn't seem to be cutting it for entertainment value. At least in my eyes.

So today, out of sheer boredom, I posted an ad on Craigslist. Yes, I know the last time i did that the results were a catastrophe what with that one ex-boyfriend, but this time it's different. For one, I used short sentences, small words and was blunt. Oh yeah, and I posted my picture. Which I have never done before. And before you go check it out for yourself, it has already been flagged for removal...but not before I received about 98 responses. I'm pretty sure it got flagged because I maybe didn't respond back to someone and they got pissed. Whatever. I'm real surprised though, because in addition to the weird ones, funny ones and the cock pics, I got some pretty cool dudes. Though that really remains to be seen. Let's face it, internet dating, as some of you may know, is like visiting a glory hole. You never know what you're going to get. Not that I've ever been to a glory hole.

So I took the plunge and placed the ad and have e-mailed back and forth the most interesting, less scary responses. After all, a writer (I use the term writer loosely) needs to write about what they know. And if something good comes from it, whether it be a relationship and/or some even more interesting stories for Adventures in Whoreland, so be it. I'm pretty much down for anything and I did plan to be more adventurous and more fearless for this new year.

Life is too short to not live it to the fullest. Bang. Let the games begin.

My life in a nutshell: an existential update

I have two jobs now. Sally beauty supply, which I have yet to actually start, and The Chop Shop in Scottsdale. Interesting. New tattoos, working on my sleeve. Bitchin'. No sexual conquests as of late. Not so bitchin'. Cold fingers on my right hand only. Weird. Talking to my new nephew in his mommy's tummy. Nurturing. Twirling in my bridesmaid dress. Exciting. Planning the princess' 7th birthday rock n' roll party. Fun.

That's about all I've got.

Adventures in Whoreland

I think it's safe to say that the whole "Adventures in Whoreland" thing can apply to me in more ways than one. That title is not only to describe the antics of personal ads purveyors, but to describe the antics of one Mal Vicious.

Most people that know me well know that I like to play. Sometimes though, my playing catches up with me. I often like to describe myself as a man in a woman's body. That mainly pertains to my school of thought on relationships. Being that I don't generally like them. As much as I say I want a boyfriend, when the opportunity arrives I run for the hills. On the occasional hook up, I'm usually the one to sneak out in the morning with nothing but a curt note and a vague recollection of the night before. However, I'm pretty sure my flavor of the night doesn't mind at all that he doesn't have to deal with "that girl" he took home.

As much fun as I have, it sometimes catches up with me in the most unexpected places. Take Friday night for example. The crew and I hit up our local Pub n' Grub for some drinks. I hadn't planned on staying out late or drinking too much since I had a client very early the next morning. Four pitchers and a few rounds of rummy later I was pretty drunk. I ordered food because it seemed like a good idea at the time. As I was eating my fries a boy I didn't know who was friends with one of mine showed up and plopped himself right next to me. I paid no attention until I saw him reach for and take some of my fries. I drunkenly chastised him for taking a strangers fries citing rudeness, so he introduced himself to me and we shook hands. The second he said his name, I knew I'd slept with him before. I hadn't even really looked at his face, just the name and the touch of his hand sent through the faded memory. I immediately told Kendra what I was pretty sure had happened. Of course she asked when and I told her the story.

It had been a few years ago when after a night of drinking at a bar then a friends house, Kendra, another friend and I decided it was a good idea to go to one of his friends' houses. We got there and I immediately noticed one of the roommates took a liking to me. At the time I had real long hair and he wanted to play with it. Weird, I know. As the morning went on (yes, I said morning, it was like 6 am), I was peer pressured to do a couple of beer bongs. As if I wasn't already shit housed enough. Eventually, on my way out of the bathroom, said roommate cornered me and kissed me. Well, without any of the details, we "hooked up".

Fast forward to a few nights ago where I run into him and Kendra and I laughed our asses off at the hilarity that is my life. At least it wasn't as bad as when I ran into one of my flavors in San Diego. I mean, when you start seeing them in another state, that's when you know you're in trouble. Now this isn't to say that I'm a turbo slut and hump anything with a penis, nor is it to say that I'm virginal. I'd like to say that I like to enjoy everything that life has to offer and have fun...and sometimes its just plain funny.

It's about damn time

Well, I did it. I finally graduated cosmetology school. Hooray for me. The grand day was this last Saturday...I got some flowers and a balloon and I clocked out as some friends and family looked on. Then I cried. Sometimes I hate being a girl. Regardless of some joking comments, I am NOT a beauty school drop out. Watch out world, here I come.

Adventures in Whoreland

This week I'm bored of Craigslist. Maybe its because I've been too busy to actually peruse the online meat market. Or maybe its because there are the same ads from the same people every day. I've looked and looked and looked but all I see are ads that I've written about before, they're just worded differently.

I don't know, maybe the fact that I'm actually happy with my life, and have been for almost a month now has sizzled out my ability to blatantly, verbally attack complete strangers for their lifestyle choices. Maybe I should re-think this whole happiness schtick.

Meanwhile, I will sit here and work on my plan for world domination. Or better yet, my plan to become famous through MySpace popularity. I mean, if Tila Tequila can do it, why can't I? I'm not as trashy OR dumb. That was mean. Maybe the whole happiness should include being nice. Wait, who am I trying to fool, happy or not, I'm not nice. Meh, tomato, tomahtoe.

Adventures in Whoreland: webdating Wednesday

Why is it that we, as a whole, feel the need to fix things. From cars to houses, to people. Women are generally more prone to "fixing up" their significant others. I've actually heard a woman say that "you have to catch men early to train and fix them". I thought we were looking for a man to spend the rest of our lives with and not dogs. I guess I was wrong on that count.

I'm starting to think, though, that that particular way of thinking is ruining it for the rest of us. If I had a dollar for every time I met a guy who looked promising in the looks, humor, personality department but not so great in the job, making good money department. The funny thing is I don't care about all that other superficial crap. What I care about is the person, but they tend to think I care about whether or not they have a good paying job. Yes, that is sort of important in the long run, but something that can be worked out. I believe that if you have to fix it, don't buy it.

It looks like this guy is looking for his pretty woman. Well, whatever floats your boat.

Looking for a fixer upper ... - 42

Reply to: @craigslist.org
Date: 2008-01-10, 11:25AM MST


Seeking a very young (18-25), single, desperate, obedient, down on your luck, semi-homeless, shelter, halfway house, trailer park kinda girl, no kids & no drugs but sexually open minded & decent teeth (at least the front ones) you must be in fairly good physical shape and just in need of some TLC & cosmetic overhaul. I will woo you with flowers and romance. I will pick out your new clothing, jewelry, hair & makeup. provide you with multiple orgasms and help clean & fix you up and make you into my very own classy young trophy girl to hang on my arm and have my way with.

Although with all my financial woes, if I were single and, oh yeah, desperate, I might consider taking him up on his offer.

Adventures in Whoreland: webdating Wednesday

Every week I generally find the same people posting the same ads. Boring boring boring. Every once in a while I find a funny one...though sometimes I'm reaching in the funny department. Then there are those times where I find the proverbial needle in the haystack that is just too good for words. Maybe its the desensitization this insane world has ingrained in my head, but some of the things people like/want just don't really surprise me anymore. But this one...this one made me think. I thought that either the guy who posted this is 1. joking, 2. merely wants to see how far a woman will go (and judging by porn these days, she'll go far) to humiliate her or 3. he really and truly is genuinely intrigued by such a simple human fact. What do you think?

Generous and need pee - m4w - 28

Reply to: @craigslist.org
Date: 2008-01-15, 5:28PM MST


I posted this a few days ago and got some responses. But, nobody was really serious. I am very serious and want to do this. If you reply, please include a pic of at least a discription of yourself. I can host and am looking for tonight.

I am a generous man in Chandler looking for a girl who will pee her pants for me. I am goodlooking and am looking for now or really soon. I can host. Here is my pic. If you have one, it would be much appreciated.

The best part? He posted a picture. Now I know that pictures on the 'net aren't reliable, but still...I truly love the pictures. And I truly hope that I see these people, this guy in particular, out in the "real world". Not to be outright mean, but to silently relish in the little secret that they don't know I know. Voracious isn't the right word, but its the first that comes to mind.

Oh how time flies

I can't help but be preoccupied with my impending birthday. In 8 days time I will be 29 years old. Yes, I know, it's not that old. The number isn't really what's getting to me. Sure, its that much closer to the big 3-0, but thats not it. Now I know I'm one of millions that have this problem the older they get and I am most definitely not the first one to express it.

I think its funny how we, as a human race, live. We're born, reared by parents and molded into an "individual". Then we're left to our own devices to birth and rear our own children if we so choose and otherwise make a life for ourselves. At this point in my life I feel as though I'm playing house. But not even a good version of house. With me about to turn 29 and the genius about to turn 11 shortly after I've been thinking a lot about the future, something that is unknown territory to me. In six and a half short years he will be ready to head off to a school some 800 miles away to pursue a long desired career. I realize that things change, but him talking about his plans already is really bringing me to reality.

The more I take a look around at my surroundings I notice...something I can't quite put my finger on. I've just been realizing that I don't think 17 and 18 year olds are old enough, maturity wise, to be out in the world on their own. I go school with a lot of girls around that age, and no offense to them because some of them are actually really rad, but I see it, the lack of life behind their eyes. I honestly don't know how I did it. I clearly was too stupid to be making my own decisions. I started having sex when I was seventeen (nowhere near as early as some of my other friends), got pregnant, graduated high school and married all in a matter of months. Then came 19. Separated after a whole year of playing house, I met who would be a pivotal player in my game of life.

I moved in with my mom, aka the live-in babysitter. I worked full-time and started learning how to live my life again. Enter the pivotal player. She was a anomaly. The anomaly and I then came to what I will now refer to as the wonder years. As in, "I wonder what happened that week because we were so wasted". I was seperated, young and didn't really know the possibilities. And then I found out. Cue the sex, drugs and rock and roll...literally, we partied like rock stars. That lasted until I got pregnant with the princess at 21. Back to playing house. Fast forward to separation yet again. I realized that even though I was, am, a good mom, I'm not cut out for the married life. Too much restraints and shackles. Call me masculine, I call it free-spirited. Nonetheless, I feel at that age I should have still been in high school not taking care of a family.

Now as my looming birthday rears its ugly head I still feel unready to take the world at large. Maybe because I have still not ventured out on my own as a true adult. Or maybe its because I'm high in the ranks of perpetually, emotionally stunted big kids. The very thought of my unreadiness gives me bats. And not the cute little I've-become-smitten-with-a-cute-boy kind of bats, the holy-shit-I-don't-know-what-I'm-doing kind.

Well, what's a girl to do, but go on living life at best while I fight like hell to not lose two of the most important things in my life...my sanity and my self. Emotionally retarded isn't the correct ailment, but its the first that comes to mind.

The bats are back

And its not over a boy either, surprisingly enough. I think those bats are dead. This time its over my impending graduation. This afternoon in the middle of a partial highlight I got called into the directors office. When I walked in I was surprised to find both the director and the financial aid guy, both with big grins on their faces. At first I thought I was in trouble. Then she told me it was just my hours, but they were messed up since I had been terminated.

Even thought my hours weren't showing, the director informed me that I'll be graduating in about 3 weeks. 3 weeks! As excited as I am to be done with school, I'm a little uneasy about it as well. It kind of brings me back to the high school oh-no-I'm-going-to-be-thrown-into-the-real-world feelings. I'm 17 again. Only this time, I'm not about to have a baby, I'm about to embark on a full time actual career. Scary.

Not only did the director freak me out by telling me when I graduate, she freaked me out by telling me that she had a salon for me. A good one she knows I'll do good at. Scary. I don't think I was this freaked when I found out I was pregnant my senior year in high school. Go figure. I guess we'll see what the frightening world has to offer me. The bats are out of control.

Adventures in Whoreland: webdating wednesday is back from sabbatical

Here's the thing about Craigslist personals...the majority of people posting ads on there are lost in a land of delusion. Now, I'm not saying that people don't find "love" through online dating, because it happens, however shitty it ends (case in point, me). However, a lot of the people on here are just plain reaching. Take the ad below. The guy is looking for a woman no bigger than a size 6 with extremely big, fake breasts or someone who wants them. Chances are, that kind of woman is NOt, I reapeat, NOT on Craigslist searching for a mate. She's out trolling the clubs in Scottsdale. I mean, I'm just sayin'.

This "man" posted his MySpace url and I did look at it. After all, I'm nosy and this blahg just wouldn't be the same if I weren't so in other peoples business. He's not bad looking, apparently (according to pics) loaded with a hint of white trashiness. To bring my whole point home though, this man has been posting this, and another similar, ad for about 3 months. Probably longer, 3 months is just all I can remember. Give it up dude, you're not going to find this anomaly through an internet classified ad.

Looking for a wife who wants...

Reply to: @craigslist.org
Date: 2007-12-23, 7:29AM MST


YES, I'm Looking for a serious relationship with a SLIM, FIT and attractive Lady who particularly WANTS or already has very large breast implants. I'm talking a woman no larger than a size 6 wanting DD to DDD implants. Yes, I like the "obviously implants" look on a slim tight figure. I'm a very handsome man, 44yo, 5'11", 185lbs and fit. Successful, beautiful homes, all the toys, etc. I seek a SOULMATE who would love to find a man who will give her encouragement and support in developing this extremely busty look. See sample photos below for the look I'm describing. Obviously, it takes a hell of a lot more than boobs to make a relationship but I definitely would like to find a woman who shares this interest before moving forward in a relationship. Feel free to write if you do... and of course, your pic gets mine or go to www dot myspace dot com




Delusion is the right word, and it is the first to come to mind.

New year, old gripes

One thing I hate the most that had to happen to me today, the second day of the new year, is when random dudes off the street ask me to let them fix the dent in my car for a small fee.

Here's the thing...even if I HAD money to spare to fix my car, I'd do it in a reputable car shop...not in the parking lot of a local Circle K. You may think its convenient and you're helping me out, but in my opinion, you're just shady. Especially when I kindly reject your question of, "Do you ever plan to fix that ding in your car?" No a-hole, I was planning on having a dent in my car for the rest of my life. Turns out, there ARE dumb questions. After I kindly rejected his offer by offering that I have no money, but thank you, I left my car to go inside and pay for my gas...but before I made it in, the shady dude pulled up IN FRONT OF ME and blocked the entrance..."Hey ma'am, I'll fix it for you for $100 bucks on the spot!" Being that I may be a huge bitch and pretty mean at times, I'm pretty much real shy and unconfrontational to strangers. I really wanted to tell the guy to leave me alone because him bugging me to let him undent my car would be like me spotting a lady with real bad hair, walking up to her and asking her if I could do her hair. Of course I'd give her a deal. $50 bucks, right here on the spot. I have my shears in the car, who cares if I'm parked in front of McDonalds.

What I thought in my mind and what actually came out of my mouth apparently warranted dirty looks from the men in the truck. As though I were lying about the $10 to my name that I was using for gas. Just leave me alone people. I do NOT want you to fix my dent at Circle K, I do NOT want you to cut me a deal because I told you I don't have money. When I say I don't have money, I really mean I don't have money. I don't mean that I have a couple of extra hundred bucks laying around. Usually what I say, I mean. I may be a girl, but I don't generally have underlying meanings when I say something. I do NOT expect you to read my mind. I appreciate the fact that you are trying to lead a respectable life by running your own business, but leave me along. I don't want your street business. Maybe next time I'll be able to just say all that instead of being polite.

Politeness may be my downfall. Happy New Year to me.

First grade woes

It was brought to my attention this afternoon, when the teacher called me, that the princess has been having altercations with a classmate lately. Rumor on the playground is that the princess and Laura are in competition on who gets to be Mia's 1st best friend. Mia is the new girl in school and is deciding who gets this illustrious title. Meanwhile, the princess is beating on Laura to the point where she is scared to go to school and had her mom call the school to complain about the princess' bullying.

I never had that sort of problem with the genius, but I never thought the princess would be the one to be getting into fights already. That little bruiser. She got taken to the principles' office and had a talking to.

I am not surprised, though. She's a little pistol. I just have to remember to keep her safety on.

Buh-humbug? Buh-randy!

So its that time of year again. The music, the presents, the obligations. (un) Lucky for me, I got fired from my job at Club Tattoo, so now I have a ton of time to spend with the kids and family. Yipee. Hey, I'm trying to look at the silver lining. Although now that I'm out of a job, I'm out of money from that job to buy Christmas presents for my kids. Who fires someone weeks before Christmas?! Scrooge is the first person that comes to mind. It's a good thing I have their dad to count on for the buying of the presents.

Now with my even-more-broke ass, I will be making presents this year. A few paintings here, a couple of home-made hair accessories there and maybe some baked goods. I'll make due, I always do. Like that one year the ex and I had only ten dollars left after bills and he went to Wal-greens on Christmas eve and bought some little toys and candy...fortunately the kids were too young to notice. It's time for me to gather up my last ten dollars, so to speak, and buy those little dollar bin toys.

Now that I'm all amped up for my crafty Christmas I have to get ready for my client. Talk about Myspace being a good advertising tool. I better kick into high gear.

Adventures in Whoreland goes on sabbatical

I'm just barely now getting to my computer for the day. I haven't even had time to think up material for the ads I've found over the weekend. So my Adventures in Whoreland is going on sabbatical. Don't worry my pretties, its only for two weeks and well, one is already almost over.

I just got home from an overly long night at work and after my second day of school, I am exhausted. Lather. Rinse. Repeat. Tomorrow is the same shit, different day. My body got way too used to sleeping all day, or least laying in bed, and not doing much else. Now I'm thrown back head first into the live-in-my-car-never-see-my-kids-never-home lifestyle that I was used to, but sure did not miss. Not even one little bit.

Once I get into the swing of things, after next week, I'll start up the Adventures in Whoreland once again. For now my bed is calling out my name for a night of tossing and turning and exhaustion for tomorrow. Lather. Rinse. Repeat.

Pretty small nutshell

A few things to catch you up on my comings and goings. It's been a while since I've written anything, but I've been fostering a busy schedule of sleeping all day and working all night followed by drinking a lot. I know, how DO I find the time to be so fabulous. I don't know how I do it.

However though, my luxurious (read: boring) life has come to an end. At least for the next couple of months. I started back at school again. Today was my first day back. It was pretty exciting (read: excruciatingly boring). I started at probably the worst possible time. Right before the holidays is really slow. Until the week before Christmas. Then slow again. Not to mention that "winter break" is coming up for the kiddos and the sister is in no condition (read: gestation-ally challenged) to baby-sit my saints for two to three whole weeks. We'll see how that goes.

In other, less interesting news, I've added more to my accouterments. I pierced both of my nostrils. And I love it. Also, my hair is black now, too...again.

Yeah, I know, I can't make up my mind. Maybe some day, but then I wouldn't be the epitome of eccentricity. I'm pretty sure that's all for now. I've had a long day, you know, being that I didn't get to sleep all day. My mind doesn't really know what's going on. Dementia isn't the right disorder, but its the first that comes to mind.

Adventures in Whoreland: webdating wednesday on thursday

First off, let me just say that I know I'm a day late, yesterday was insanely crazy. I don't think I was even home all day.

This week, we will be discussing fetishes, respectively. Last night I got asked if I have any. Now most people don't know this about me, but I'm pretty vanilla when it comes to sex. I'm not saying I'm bad at it, because well I'm not, but I don't do a lot of the crazy shit that most women seem to be doing now a days, so that's why I say vanilla. That's pretty much the only way I can describe it. Its funny because most men hit on me based on my looks and the fact that they figure since I have so many tattoos and piercings, I'll be into the kind of stuff they see in extreme porn. Homie don't play that. But I will say, since I'm pretty sure I'm starting to sound like a mormon on her honeymoon, I don't get complaints and satisfaction is involved on his part...just throwing it out there...don't want to never get laid again.

But I digress. Some of the things that men and women ask for is pretty humorous. Mainly men though, I've noticed, ask for weird things on CL than women. Women, I believe, are a little more discreet. And some of the request just straight up gross me out. Welcome to the ick factor.

would you like to watch me shave??? - m4w - 36

Reply to:
Date: 2007-11-14, 7:45AM MST


Hi, It's finally my weekend, sorry to rub it in, but I'm now home alone in the morns and afts for the rest of the week. Have you ever wanted to watch a guy shave his pubic hair? I'm in need of a good trim, actually lets go bald, and would love to have an audience. If this sounds like something you like to see maybe we can sort it out.....

Now here is one where I really do wonder if he got any responses and was able to carry out this "fantasy" of his. I think I will ask him. God bless the internet.

A funny thing happened...

On my way to Thanksgiving dinner. My tire blew out. We were halfway there, then BOOM goes the tire. So we pulled off on the side of the freeway to take a look. This is what it looked like:

Crack is Whack

We called for reinforcements. My sister had left a few minutes after we did, and boy was I glad that she was running late as well.

Then, the inevitable happened. I mean, it just wouldn't have been complete if this hadn't happened...the ex dropped the jack. Down. A hole. A drain hole to be exact.

And of course my spare tire was no bueno, so we couldn't use that. I ended up having to leave my poor baby on the side of the road. Yeah, my car is kind of a piece and its more than just a little messy, but I love it. It'd be like if I had to leave one of my kids on the side of the road. I mean, they're real smelly and sticky and just a little annoying, but I'd be real sad if I had to leave them behind with a bum tire. After I left my car, we continued on our way to eat some food. Because boy, does getting a flat sure build up an appetite. So eat I did. As my poor car sits on the freeway all alone and cold. Now I'm going to buy a new tire and rescue my car. I have until 3:45 this afternoon to pick it up, or else...

Adventures in Whoreland: webdating wednesday

This week on Adventures in Whoreland, we are going to delve into the strange, freudian world of mommy and daddy complexes. I, myself have run into quite a few men who like to be called "Daddy". I comply, sometimes, but I don't really understand it. Why? Is it because it makes them feel in control and...well, I don't know. If any of you men that read this and want to openly admit that you like being called daddy and will tell me why, tell me. An inquiring mind wants to know. This ad doesn't really go into the whole "call me daddy" thing, but it's pretty close in the whole "I want to be your daddy" thing.

Daddy Issues?

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Date: 2007-11-12, 12:19PM MST


Are you attracted to older men? I'm more than happy to help you deal with your "Daddy Issues", even to the point of giving you that allowance that he never did. To make this realistic, you should be 18-28, attractive, non-smoking and FUN!

The other weird thing is the mommy thing. Now I don't mean the whole "Iwant a milf" thing...I mean the whole, "I want you to baby me and act like my mommy" thing. Though this one doesn't really surprise me. Grosses me out a little bit, but not really any kind of surprise there. Most men are just big babies looking for their mother, figuratively speaking of course, to take care of them. I'm pretty sure that towards the end of my marriage it all boiled down to the fact that I was not like his mother (may she rest in peace; why do we always have to add that in when speaking of the deceased?) in any way, shape or form. She was devout mormon who sold Amway, didn't drink, smoke or eat processed foods. I'm an agnostic atheist who smokes, drinks and eats fast food. She was high strung, I'm laid back. She was passionate about not getting social security cards, immunizations or giving them medicine and I could care less. All in all, not like his mother equals divorce. At least that's my theory, and I'm sticking to it.

So this next ad was false advertising...a little. The subject says one thing, but the actual ad proves that he does need a mommy to teach him a thing or two...or that he just needs to go back to school. It looks as though the first part of the ad he's responding to someone, then goes into his "about me". Baby needs to learn to read and write.

i want a mommy to show me a thing or two - m4w

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Date: 2007-11-13, 6:16PM MST


Hi, I am a 22 year old hispanic u of a student currently living near the u of a. after reading your posting I am very confident that I am what you two are looking for. I would love to meet you two in person so we can discuss this further. I am 6 feet tall have brown hair and brown eyes. The way I work out is boxing during the week you could most likely find me at boxing inc. gym on stone. I don’t have any pics of my dick but I am cut and well over 7 inches looking for a woman between 30 to 50 years old

What does this tell us? People are weird. Which I am discovering more and more as I, not only read ads for fun, but as I date or meet men at bars, work, where ever. I am surrounded by men, more than half my friends and the majority of my co-workers. I love it, but let me tell you, boy am I scared.

Drunk e-mails

Last night when I got home from staying out way later then intended and drinking more than I wanted, I checked my space. A "friend" had stated that he was looking for a punk rock girl...and this is what I said:

sorry to disappoint you, but there is no such thing as "punk rock" girls anymore...the last of them died out in 1987...and if you meet one that claims to be "punk rock", run, run as fast as you can because those girls are the homogenized, mass produced vapid versions of something that doesn't exist anymore, you know, unless you like that kind of thing...just a little unwanted advice from your friendly neighborhood mal vicious...hahahaha

"punk rock is not a look...it's a way of life, it's a way of thought"

Rant much? I hate labels. With a fiery passoin. So my rant has some truth to it. The little girls running around claiming to be punk rock don't even know what punk rock is. They think its wearing studded belts and pink hair and listening to Good Charlotte. Like the quote above says, its a way of life and a way of thought. I can't even claim to be "punk rock". As far as music goes, these so-called punks would flee at the sight of Gigi Allen taking a shit on stage in the middle of a show. Or would cover their ears at the sound of Bad Brains or Crass. I'm not sayin', I'm just sayin'.

So the lessen of the day: don't write drunk e-mails to boys you don't know the day before you start your period.

Adventures in Whoreland: webdating wednesday

What I have been wondering lately is 'what the fuck'? As in, what the fuck are they thinking. Take for example, this first ad:

HEY!! WHO WANTS A BABY ??? - 36

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Date: 2007-11-10, 6:45PM MST


Okay, so here's the deal. I am NOT going to IMPREGNATE YOU, unless you have...

1) A JOB!

2) A Checking AND a Savings Account -- WITH MONEY IN BOTH!!

3) A CAR -- that you service REGULARLY!

4) ZERO Debt!!!

5) NO Husband, NO Boyfriend, and NO children!

6) The ability to turn MENS heads!

7) And.... I'll tell you the REST later...

Alright, I don't have a checking account...damnit, I guess that counts me out. I mean, really? Really? I hope that this is a joke. Although I have an inkling that this guy is for real. He attached a picture to this ad, and well, he's not even good looking. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right? One ugly baby coming up. Oh wait, nevermind. I do NOT want a baby with this man.

This week there were just so many wtf's that I couldn't decide on just one. So here's another, which, it really amazes me as to what people, namely men, really think about. Oh yeah, this is it:

Unique one!!! Do you like flashing? - m4w - 32

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Date: 2007-11-13, 1:21AM MST


Looking for someone that likes to flash in public. We go out and I shoot some pics of you flashing in public. If you want they can be shoots with no face. If this sounds like you give me a reply. Your pic gets mine.

I could be wrong, but is there a woman out there that would actually reply to, and go through with this guy? You find me that woman, and I'll get a tattoo of a big cock on my leg.

Last, but certainly not least, this last ad. It's hard to choose these. I actually have a folder for all the ads I find on here. Its insane. This last one is so simple, yet so acenine.

Want To Get Married? - 39

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Date: 2007-11-11, 9:39PM MST



Send Photo,,,, and details

Pick me, pick me, pick me! I want to get married. I mean, I don't really know what you look like, but I am SO desperate to attach myself to someone that I'll do it with a man I don't even know because I saw an ad in Craigslist. Sign me up.

What the fuck?